The Venusian Arts Q&A Sessions Vol1: Matador from The Venusian Arts (Finished)

[Matador]

Hello Gentelmen,

I'm Matador, aka Lefty, aka Lefty Guns, aka Left Two Guns, aka Horse Cock...in case you don't know me...my profile can be found here:

http://www.venusianarts.com/AboutUs.aspx

I'll be happy to answer any questions you have on game, strategy, sticking points...etc. So let's shoot.

I am planning on having this thread open for about 1 week.

[Limelight]

Hey Matador,

lately I'm trying to improve my AMOGing skills. I engage in large mixed sets with obviously alpha males in them and try to steal the set from them.

I can amog this guys to a certain point but from there on the AMOGs get aggressive very quickly and I have to either eject or face a serious fight.

Am I miscalibrating something or ist it normal? When my wings are AMOGing, it seems like they never encounter these things(although they're not able to say what I'm doing wrong)

[relics]

DUde if the AMOGS hit you, they know that they're not gettin laid tonight.

Now for my questions, I got three.

If you're a good looking guy, do you think you get shit tested more frequently/earlier as a result of the target seeing if you're more than meets the eye?

Why do FBs suddenly not want to be FBs anymore?

and

If you're going from A2 to A3 and you're trying to get to C1 but you're getting IODs instead of IOIs and you haven't given SOIs do you want to use a DHV to blast through LMR or DLV to get past through her ASD...assuming she's an SHB11( I really did want to know:P)

[Limelight]

Originally Posted by relics

If you're going from A2 to A3 and you're trying to get to C1 but you're getting IODs instead of IOIs and you haven't given SOIs do you want to use a DHV to blast through LMR or DLV to get past through her ASD...assuming she's an SHB11( I really did want to know:P)

You won't get an answer for this question even Style didn't know it and Mystery didn't know it too...

[relics]

Nahh he said he'd leave it for another time.

This is the other time.

[Dynamism]

I'm in a club sarging right, it's loud. The MM is fine communication. How the heck do I communicate with girls the most efficient way possible when there's all these distractions?

I swear, if it was quieter I'd have much more success, not to say that I didn't last night.

[relics]

Amen to that. Usually when I get into clubs people are already grinding/making out/dry sex on the couch and the music is menacingly trying to over-power my vocal chords.

I can't wait till he answers these questions

[Matador]

Originally Posted by Limelight

Hey Matador,

lately I'm trying to improve my AMOGing skills. I engage in large mixed sets with obviously alpha males in them and try to steal the set from them.

I can amog this guys to a certain point but from there on the AMOGs get aggressive very quickly and I have to either eject or face a serious fight.

Am I miscalibrating something or ist it normal? When my wings are AMOGing, it seems like they never encounter these things(although they're not able to say what I'm doing wrong)

how do you know when you're winning and doing it right?

you should see a slight smile or giggle on the girls faces at the guy who is being amogged.

in addition, you should feel the helplessness he feels as you're tooling him because you have set the frame that he is a social violater if he escalates it to fighting.

btw, you're first option is to befriend.

[Matador]

DUde if the AMOGS hit you, they know that they're not gettin laid tonight.

Now for my questions, I got three.

Originally Posted by relics

If you're a good looking guy, do you think you get shit tested more frequently/earlier as a result of the target seeing if you're more than meets the eye?

Makes logical sense, but I have not come to that conclusion...fyi, shit testing is an IOI...she wouldn't bother unless she thought your were a candidate. Shit testing is testing for strength.

Originally Posted by relics

Why do FBs suddenly not want to be FBs anymore?

there is a value equilibrium in all interactions...one party falls short, the other loses investment to be there. If you're FB is leaving you.

1) Has she lost attraction
2) She wants to allocate her resources onto a new man who will provide the S value to her gauranteed.
3) She has lost the value in the arrangement...

most likely, #2 if it was sudden...she sees a better R value investment.

Originally Posted by relics

If you're going from A2 to A3 and you're trying to get to C1 but you're getting IODs instead of IOIs and you haven't given SOIs do you want to use a DHV to blast through LMR or DLV to get past through her ASD...assuming she's an SHB11( I really did want to know:P)

IOD back for an IOD, then immediately DHV...repeat cycle until you see IOI...throw out CT for strong IOI...depending on result you know where to go in the diagram on ch6. in the VAH

[Matador]

Originally Posted by Dynamism

I'm in a club sarging right, it's loud. The MM is fine communication. How the heck do I communicate with girls the most efficient way possible when there's all these distractions?

I swear, if it was quieter I'd have much more success, not to say that I didn't last night.

Amp your energy levels...be ULTRA playful and HIGH enery with a slight hint of ADD (multiple threading purposes)...accentuate you're subcommunications...you're roll-offs, you're push aways, you're kino...if find this character allows me to subcommunicate more when my verbal is cut-off or retarded...and yes...it is more annoying to game in loud venues, but not impossible.

It is okay to be ULTRA lound to the level of a drill sargent and break normal proximity conventions as typically noted in Day Game rules...the environment is acceptable for that and you will be "allowed" to do this.

PROJECTION, ULTRA PLAYFUL DEMEANOR, ULTRA PLAYFUL KINO, WIDLEY CHARISMATIC, GREGARIOUS PERSONALITY, THEATERICAL

these are the characterics I would say my personality has in these situations.