What to say if she asks you if you're gay?

[him]

Hey guys i have a question here, a couple of days ago, one hb9 was trying to hook up with me but i was kind of indisposed at the beginning, so she asked me if i was gay and i said no, now i feel like i could answer something better, kind of a neg or something, anyway, i ended up making off with her.

[Phelim]

It's a common question...lots of different ways to answer:

Her:
Are you gay?

You:
"I'm not gay, but I think my boyfriend is."
"Not yet, but I'm trying to learn"
"What are you, the gay police?"

Anything works as long as you smile and turn it into a joke. Then continue your original thread or start a new one as if that shit test never happened.

[Epicure]

This is such a great question.

Much of the way learning the Mystery Model has helped is that it taught me to understand women's psychology and motivation.

Ask yourself, WHY would a woman ask you if you are gay? YES! Of course she said it o get a reaction out of you.
You are just some dweeb and you have the audacity to ignore HER, a princess, an HB9.

You insulted her without even realizing it and she needs to make herself feel in-reject and worthy by striking back. If you are gay, then the is nothing wrong with her.

So, the first thing you do is understand that your nonchalance in ignoring her was BRILLIANT!! You got her attention.

Now, SMILE and respond playfully, never defensively and say, "yes, I am happy all the time. Now what is your name princess?"

Or, "I was until you smiled.". Or, "what a silly question, why don't you tell me about how the universe has been treating you". Or just ask her "How has the universe been treating you"

Actually, anything you say at this point that is friendly, not defensive is perfect. Whatever you did to get her to say that to you is something you need to reverse engineer and repeat since it got her to notice you and not see you as a danger.


GOOD JOB!

[oktar]

Unless you are acting like a drag queen around, I think "Are you gay?" is the second most powerful indirect question a girl asking showing her interest (the first one is "Are you single?"). She us clearly attracted! As epicure said you negged and/or showed IOD well, so in her mind she is trying to rationalize that(you might be gay, may have a gf, or simply not interested with her). Maybe even a bit too much that she felt like negging you as well. Good job! I was asked "Are you gay" three times before, and all these girls were really into me(one was HB7 trying to pull me home which I didnt react positively at first, that is why she asked; second one HB8 came out if the blue and just grabbed my ass, which I didnt react at all, 5 mins later she approached and asked; third time was and HB10 which was screening me for some weeks, then we start chatting and that was one of the first things she asked). I think they just ask it (at least in my cases) they dont wanna waste their time trying to pick up a gay guy that night. In all cases I simply replied " No, I am not" and it all went well. I really dont understand why some feel urge to come up with a witty/funny reply whatever girls asks or they say. Given that, of course you should have interesting/exciting stories/games to keep her interested/excited/ occupied/ intrigued! But You dont always have to be the "shining star" all the time. Actually, you dont need to and more imporantly you shouldnt! It is against human nature and rules of the communication. You will look "try hard" or "unnatural" which us a turn off for any girl. This is my 2cents. Cheers!

[leonidise]

Id just look at her holding a strong frame and say' I keep meeting girls like you I might go play for the other team'. Then I would stack forward.

[Jazzy_ways]

Last time a girl ASKED me I said "ABSOLUTELY NOT" and started making out Last time I got CALLED gay it was by a lesbian anyway so I was like................touche !

[MrStinky]

Originally Posted by Phelim

Her:
Are you gay?

You:
"I'm not gay, but I think my boyfriend is."

This is awesome!