dance floors...

[Macstab]

Friday night. Im at a place called satin lounge. Its the only dance floor close to a major college. College girls all around. I start the night with a drink. I neg a girl at the bar taking a shot about bow she does not seem old enough to be drinking. She responds about the strength of my drink. Responsive but not hooked. She goes to the hookah bar.

The dance floor is firing up. I have taken salsa lessons every Wednesday day for two years, and go tear the floor up. I dance for some girls looking sidelong at me. I do some moves for them. They watch interestedly. I tip my hat a fancy way and they laugh. For some reason after that they don't pay attention any more.

Some guys I know here say hi to me. They dance. None really look like they know what they are doing, and yet girls come to grind them. I am more skilled than any of them, so why do girls not come dance with me? One guy in particular has a girl straddling him on the floor.

It just does not make sense. The music is too loud for any spoken game to have taken place. It does not look like they knew each other already.

Is it luck? Does my friend just happen to catch the woman in heat? If it is luck, why does he always seem to have a girl straddling him every time I see him here?

I look around the room. There are plenty of men dancing, plenty sitting around the edges. There are several women dancing as all, but they make circles with themselves to block the rest of the room out.

And I realize something else... the women are teasing the men. They all know what the guys want. They wave it in their faces so when the guy approaches the women can deny them. It happensI in frontthe of methe over andI over again asI i watch. Women are so cruel. None of these heartless bitches deserve to deny the heart of any of these men, and yet society frames us to believe we should supplicate these evil things.

Today I read an article about male dolphins. For some reason they have become so sexually frustrated they have been documented trying to rape porpoises and even humans. Porpoises have been found dead battered from dolphin attacks with damage specifically at genital areas. Humans have almost drowned from offending dolphins. And for a while now male dolphins have been known to kill their own children so the mother will want to have more sex. Interesting as well is the fact that dolphins have brains the size of a humans.

I look around and see all this teasing and denying from a gender long used to playing with the hearts of men, and I wonder... with the state of modern society... could humans develop the same habits as that of the dolphin?

I need only look at a woman who enjoys teasing and denying a man to know the answer.

[Meezo]

Dance Game is all body language and completely non-verbal. However, it does use the common universal concept of a "pivot." A pivot is a girl that can help you get the girl you "really" want.
Look for girls on the dance floor that are dancing alone or might be in a small two set or three set. I'm not saying go for 1's, 2's, and 3's. You should just go for girls that are in the 5-7 range and dance with them first. When other girls see you doing that, then it's social proof and they'll be able to see that girls can give you attention. Basically, you're using those less attractive girls as pivots on the dance floor.
Also, be sure to never approach a girl from behind when dancing with them and never talk to a girl while dancing with them. All girls wanna do on the dance floor is dance... not talk. Talking is for off the dance floor.
Also, just because you took salsa dancing lessons does not mean that salsa is the form of dance that is in context to the music that is playing. If you took salsa dancing go to a salsa dancing club. I'm a breakdancer and that gets girls looking when it comes to modern clubs that have hip-hop and dance songs. However, that does not mean that I'll show my moves immediately, unless I see a girl dancing completely by herself. At that point, I'll show her that I am comfortable with dancing by myself, as well, and I usually get a good response. However, I stick strictly to moves that are for dancing on your feet. Not the moves of downrock (crazy shuffling movements of your feet like the six-step) and spinning on your head. I limit my performances to when there is a dance circle where people are showcasing themselves. Make sure you are NOT the desperate dancing monkey of the club. Make the girls show them your moves. Spin them around and dip them. You should not begin immediately grinding with a girl just like you don't immediately begin making out with a girl when you meet her, unless she begins grinding with you which shows that she's already in that mood.

How to approach? You can dance up to a girl with your arms bent at 90 degrees with palms facing up while you're dancing to the beat and spin her around when she accepts. Be sure to put your arms low so that SHE is the one that puts her hands in your palms. If the girl is in a group, dance with the whole group of girls gradually and if you have wingmen, have them dance with the other girls so you don't get cockblocked by her lady friends.
Another approach is you can put your butt to another girls butt and dance to her rhythm, especially if the dance floor is crowded. Look behind you and smile and extend your hands towards her when she smiles back and give her a spin and start dancing. If you need a good guide to Dance Game, get the pdf e-book, Dance Floor Game Decoded by Angelo Malixi.

Peace, love, and sarge the hell outta that pussy, baby! We're all Casanovas in the making.

[timezoner]

heya, i was wondering whether anyone has that ebook??

[Packer]

yo Meezo, great insight man. am almost in the same boat as Macstab, do u have a field report about the same topic which reached the Day 2 phase or a same night lay phase with a chick from the dancefloor? will be very helpful brother. Thanks

[shadow74]

Odds are that the girls thought you were showing off. Just because you have great moves doesn't mean ladies will want to sance with you. Sucks doesn't it. Its way important to just not give a fuck and just have fun. Take notes on wht you friend does. That should help alot.

[Mr. Solo Dolo]

Since you have been taking salsa lessons for 2 years you should know that the man always leads the woman in every aspect. So why would you wait for a girl to want to dance with you? Iv only been dancing for 4 months now and every salsa club i go to, I dont wait or ask for a dance, i go up to a girl i want to dance with, give her my hand with palms facing up, and 9 out of 10 times she takes it I heard its considered rude if they dont so most of them will unless they really dont feel like dancing with you.