last minute resistance

[MrIronMario]

she is a HB9.5, i'm getting lmr already about 5 times and i don't know how to overcome it. I did freeze out, hijacked my brain, 3 Riker's rules, but nothing changed.... once in the car after the preliminaries and myself put a condom she seems terrified, put her hand over her pussy, she pulls back....another time she's arousal by the preliminary, she's moan but gets out of bed and says no .... did these reactions often....I think about 5 times ...
now I'm using the persistence and try to have more comfort with her ​​but says he does not want a relationship and do not want to be with anyone ....
Please help me I do not know how to overcome and I want to fuck ....
you think it might be a virgin??

[Mickey Angel]

Sounds like it might be her. Maybe she's got some emotional baggage that you don't know about. You may want to consider changing the focus from 'wanting to fuck' this girl to getting to know her more on a personal level - and it sounds like you have done that to some degree.

If you can get her to accept that you don't want her as a gf, you just want to be a 'friend' you can keep dhv'ing and building comfort, escalating and rolling off. The key is rolling off before she gets uncomfortable. This will help her build trust in you over time.

Emotional connection is also key. How much do your really know about her? How much does she really know about the real you? Have you shared hopes, dreams and aspirations? Have you shared childhood stories?

Your decision on when too much patience and persistence is too much.

Lastly - Even the greats don't close 100% of the time. If she truly does have some baggage you need to be able to know when to walk, leave her better then you found her and learn from the experience. There are plenty more hb 9.5's out there...and if you got this far with this one then you got the skills to do it again...

[MrIronMario]

thanks a lot, you're a great coach! She definitely has some psychological block, but does not want to talk to me, is very proud and never speaks of his feelings and states of mind, indeed tends to suppress them ... I think he's afraid of strong feelings and love ...
Once the phone told me that must feel confident to have sex ....
I believe that I should wait until she decides to have sex and simultaneously make deep comfort...