Day Game at University. Help!

[nirvana]

Originally Posted by Dwight44

College is all about social circle

Do NOT go around doing cold approach pickup in college!! DONT DO IT....build a social circle

Who says you can't dwight? you keep spamming that throughout this whole thread.

[Russianstar]

MM is all about indirect game, so you can build a social circle by approaching. Also, if u have a roomate.. make him ur wing.. if u have a few suit mates. make them ur wing

[DateDemon]

Originally Posted by nirvana

Who says you can't dwight? you keep spamming that throughout this whole thread.

Yea to say you can't cold approach in college is just dumb. On the other hand to say you should approach and not use social circles in college is dumb as well. You really need to utilize both to get the best gains. If you do not really have a social circle though why not approach to build one? Or if you have a social circle why not approach to add people to it. If you and your guy friends constantly approach new girls every week you will have a fresh influx of girls constantly.

I was recently on a college campus and got about 8 phone numbers in 2 hours, met up with one of the girls that same night, and had a day 2 set up with another.

To say you can't approach or shouldn't approach in college, when i can go to a random campus and get results like that from strictly cold approaches is ridiculous.

[Feynman]

Depends on your school. Even in a big university, cold approaching is difficult. In my college town (20,000 students) if you get blown out by a couple of girls, then they have friends and it's amazing how fast things can get around. There are only about 6 bars in town and only three that are popular and hold a decent number of people.

To be honest it's always about building and using as social circle to your advantage if you can. If not, then okay, do a cold approach, but I'd avoid doing really risky ones that can make you seem weird. For college, just like high school, being "natural", alpha is the best way to go.

[rgreco]

Originally Posted by Manslut

Because it's a stupid opener.

Tic tac toe is off the chain. When she says, "I have a boyfriend..." I reply "OMG me too! we can be bff shopping buddies..." and role play with her about shopping. Huge comfort / dhv (confidence) boost. I'm not gay and she knows this and its actually how I met and picked up an HB8.7 with a legit boyfriend in class.

...She ended up coming over the next day (she was hanging out with her boyfriend that night) and cooked me some penne a la vodka!

[Thracius]

The thing to remember is that they're exceptionally wary of clingy/creepy guys, so be like super fun, smiling so walk up like "heeeeey, my hobby is talking to random strangers, yeah... makes life fun, so... do you wanna chat for half a second or are you like... totally weird ?" but you gotta calibrate it with a smile or you're gonna come off arrogant; be the fun/randomly chatty guy

[TheLostProphet]

I think telling a girl from the start, hey I think you're cute, is a no no. For one, it shows you're interested with her and you don't want that do you? You want her to have no idea what you think about her so she'll be more curious. Besides, if you tell her off the bat what your intentions are, what are the chances that she's sufficiently attracted to you by then? Exactly.

Second, you don't want to be macking some girls one day only to have some girl you just number closed yesterday see you doing it. She'll know right there and then that you were just playing her and you do not want that word to get around.

Being all light and fun and airy is the way to go. So long as you don't treat her like a one night only person that you'll never see again, you can't really go wrong.

From personal experience, girls walking very fast have a place to go. Girls pacing around a spot and looking around or waiting to meet someone. In either case it's very risky. If she's in a rush she's probably not interested, or she could be meeting her boyfriend. This happened to a friend of mine, he tried opening a girl outside the library only to have her boyfriend join after 1 minute. Turns out the guy was a friendly acquaintance of his!

I think if you see a girl leisurely strolling wherever then go for it. Rememeber to follow general conversation tips like looking her in the eyes and locking that eye contact. I have a bad habit of looking everywhere but the eyes when I'm nervous so if you just force yourself it makes you look a lot more confident and alpha.

I really like some of the suggestions on here, "Can I text over here like you?" is joke, gotta try that. I'm surprised you can just go over to a girl on a cell and start talking though, even if their chitchat is banal.

Originally Posted by Thracius

The thing to remember is that they're exceptionally wary of clingy/creepy guys, so be like super fun,

Yea they can sense them from a mile away...Ive heard girls talk about "inexperienced" guys in college, the other day i was in a dorm and was up eavesdropping on a convo a group was having. They mentioned about some guy how he was a senior in college but then yet had 0 skills talking to girls . They do consider creds to, so if your a bum and jam on warcraft all day you better switch it up quick or learn to be a good liar

Learn to realize what your scoping at, can you tell if they look like a suitable target...willing to comply? A MAJORITY of chicks post up in lounges, labs etc etc and they are just being out there and available...and you can always tell when you go up to talk at them and they give you the eyes like "Yes he approached me !!" look. Most of the time you can walk into said room, scope the place out and see who's looking around/having ADD from those that are actually studying for real. For what to say don't do the gay shit or cover up openers. Straight talk to them, hey did you get the HW done for today, how'd you do this etc etc then bridge off into other conversation. Girls are not dumb, especially if they are in college.....you can lie to yourself and think oh they are not aware of what I'm trying to do. Guess again...They can put 2 and 2 together most of the time remember that!

AND if one has a brain, they know your intentions..even if you do not walk up to her and say Hey baby i want you now!!! she can assume if your approaching her and "being slick/flirting" of what your intentions are. As long as she does not blow you off and plays along/shows interest your golden. Plus at the same time if your mingling away and doing a good job at it she'll pickup your different from the rest of the chumps out there who cannot handle conversation with them.(especially if shes got a bad history of being around AFCs and other creeps).

I remember when i was starting to build my foundation on campus I would be quick and light with targets...in case of onlookers, that way not to be deemed a player. If I'd be walking with one girl, I'd chat then cut out and take the long way just to not be seen as having obvious status with said girl. IF you can establish just casual female contacts to say hi/bye/how are you doing today etc, that way from day to day campus life you can demonstrate your have much acceptance already from other female colleagues.

AND ITS SIMPLE ^^^^. Alot of times I made small chat with girls in my class, not expecting anything from it, next time I'd see the girl id be getting progression. Just be chillin then they would open up on me and flirt...even going out of their way just to chat...thats what happens in college..all the old social circles from high school CEASE to exist and most are on their own building them up again...now im not saying campus girls are vulnerable but the idea of it being a friendly environment favors stranger-stranger conversation as it will not be seen as "Creepy"... unless of course you look like the guy in the wanted picture hanging in the post office hah.

IT DOES NOT MAKE A DIFFERENCE EITHER what college you are at...pretty much the same anywhere, poor, regular or snooty campus. Just remember not to underestimate...or you'll come out with a black eye hahah.

Know what your working with first, totally takes any difficulties out of the picture allowing you to work with great ease.

[Henja]

So I'm new the the forum, but I am decently versed on the theory. For the past summer break I have been working on my night game, but I have just started up for my next year of Uni and have been adjusting to that.

I was walking around the other week and I ran into a brick wall of obvious. Universities are packed to the fucking gills with women!
I've been trying to figure the best way to run day game but its been tricky. Day game is still confusing to me in all the subtle differences. Also for those who haven't been to university in awhile there are some unique constraints that I shall remind you of.

1. Lectures- people are paying attention to the prof not you, and you should be too. Does that mean this is completely out of the question?
2. Libraries- I've been trying to work around talking to women in a place where you get some seriously nasty reactions for making noise. Also sometimes they are studying too.

Oh and just if it matters, my campus is huge, so don't think that I have any better of a chance seeing the same girl again as I would some random person on the street. (I barely run into friends from different programs more than once a year to give you some perspective).

So lay it on me, no matter how obvious. Thanks!

[azazels_wolf]

Merging your thread into another college game thread. Let's continue the discussion over here.