Day Game at University. Help!

[Hechtor]

I just recently moved up to college. This place is filled with ridiculous amounts of hot women, none of which i approach outside of the classroom. In the classroom is where i find it easiest to pick up women. In the three classes that i have attempted to number-close i have received three numbers. In my first class there is around 100 people with around 100 seats to choose from. I make sure i get to class about 5 min early and sit next to the girl i want to number-close. From there, I simply make nice and talk to them as if i had no intention of hitting on them. (whats your major? what do you do for fun?). I did however use an opener that I read in "The Game" which Style wrote. I simply asked, "I do need a female opinion on something if you don't mind... My buddy is dating a girl that goes to a different school, and she doesn't want him talking to his ex that goes here. What would you do?" An instant classic. She simply said that shes not very good in that area and she would talk it out with his current spouse. Blah blah blah. The teacher began to teach after she said all of her nonsense so i didn't talk to her again until the end of class. Although, i did make a few humorous comments about the teacher which she laughed at. I took this as an IOI because none of them were that funny. After class was over I asked what she was doing now and she said she was going home. I said, "Well we should hang out sometime soon, whats your number?" Number received. Number close.

[Dwight44]

The key to college game is social circle game...

Cold approach is for lounges and cool rooftop bars

You want to bring high value guys and girls into your circle and go out with them

[tov]

Z, college is exactly where I have been gaming. It seems to be the only place in my town where there are HBs that are sociable. I have two modes of opening:

Lone Wolf: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question? Can you take a compliment from a complete stranger?" if she says yea/sure/i guess " Dude, me too! You go first!" and then I give her my best Zoolander pose. This open has never failed for me.

Group: I just go in with any indirect opener. I try not to open too many groups up at Tech because I haven't made it to that point in my game yet to where I can command the groups attention while they are walking/trying to get somewhere.

With the lone wolves, I have playfull bannter throughout the whole conversation. I am teasing them, push-pull. But mostly, I am using my frame. Not sure what the MM ideaolgy of frames are, but it works for me. lol.

What I use to #close is I say "The real reason why I started talking to you was because I really like - anything that is not her looks- and I was wanting to get to know you. Let's get coffee after my class."

Or if she is a SHB, I'll say "because you are gorgeous, but beauty is so common. I was hoping there is something behind those eyes. Why don't we go to the cafe and grab a coffee?"

This has worked for me every time. I am very direct on the opening, and then when I bounce her, or on our day two, I make her qualify herself. I'm working on MLTR right now with a few of the girls this semester that I have used this with. Any critic of my style would be greatly appreciated.

Tov

You Create Your Own Reality.

[SolidSnake]

Dunno if this has been mentioned before, but seriously, outside the school's library is the place to be. People take smoke breaks, come out to get some fresh air, take a phone call and then relax, so on and so forth. And once you meet some people, thy may bring along some friends/classmates, really easy way to get to know people and slide into a routine if you're comfortable gaming around friends.

EDIT: not to mention, most pople stop by there at some point to research, study, or just browse with the school's computers. Plus during crunch time there's even more folks, and you can gripe together about the agony that comes with finals.

[xCharmx]

got this from somewhere else. I don't take the credit.. but its good..

Anyways here is an opener I love using on campus and have used it for the last 4 years. Sit down next to your target and don't even notice her. After you get situated take out a piece of paper and on it, draw a hangman set as if your about to play hangman with

_ _ , _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _?
as the letter spacing

Every time I have done this in 4 years I go a laugh or a chuckle and they immediately put a letter down on the paper.

A few times there was a bit of resistance that was normally a simple "really??" which i always replied with something along the time of "Your one of those serious book worms aren't you?" or "what? don't you enjoy having fun?". Sometimes when they are struggling I like to say "come on!! Really? I play this with my two little twin sisters and they are (age) years old!!"

Works like a charm. It is by far the last thing they ever expect from that guy next to them. I'm actually waiting to meet a girl I picked up with it 2 semesters ago for a relaxing time at the hookah lounge.

Anyways hope you enjoy that one.

ps. the letter spacing is "Hi, Whats Your Name?" naturally you can do something different, but I don't want to come across to hard with the first hang man note.

The best part is after she wings the first game, you can repeat the game to carry on the conversation.

You have a real winner when instead of answering verbally she draws up a hangman game and now it's your turn to guess. I have carried on dozens of conversations all the way to a number close without once saying a single word to the girl.

[Qarloz]

anyone willing to share day game..IM

[Laces]

Did the hang man opener works like a charm thax.

Laces

[xCharmx]

Originally Posted by Laces

Did the hang man opener works like a charm thax.

Laces

np..

details!!

[Laces]

Sat next to her in a hall in one of the college campus buildings and she was on an mp3 player. I always found it hard to get girl off of cells or mp3s but the hang man did just that. She started playing along as if she was going to play all along lol. It worked great # closed!

Laces

[DateDemon]

Ok College game in a nutshell:

Show up to class and go early 15 minutes early to every class if possible. Talk to girls outside or in the hallway before class. You know they are in class too so you know exactly how much time you have to talk before the time constraint is up.

In class: 1. Write on your notepad a message and show it to the girl next to you, or tic tac toe or whatever.
2. peacock your school gear. Go out and buy some girly Dolphin /unicorn notebooks and use those for taking notes. When a hot girl is next to you pull out your notebook with exaggerated movement and as she giggles open her/ or sometimes they will open you. Buy a big pencil, a neon flash drive, whatever.
3. Situational, comment on in class situations, talk about the guy that never stops asking the teacher questions, if she has a billion note cards make fun of her for being a nerd. Ask her what she thinks of the teacher/ tell her which celebrity the teacher reminds you of and why.

Libraries and Student unions are actually not as good of a place as you would think. Unless you are good with day gaming girls i would not recommend a library considering everyone will be so quiet and not only do you have to cold open but you have to do it while everyone else is studying or in silence. it is pretty intimidating for someone new.

Outside sidewalks and areas are usually best. Coffee shops are also very good/ cafeterias.

If the girl is sitting in the cafeteria alone walk up and ask is someone sitting here? and then sit down before even starting a conversation. (goes for bars and stuff too)

Sidewalks: you usually want a sidewalk that is busy but not really busy. If the sidewalk is really busy not only will you have to compete with your anxiety of opening her in front of a lot of other people but you also have to keep up with the flow of traffic while doing it.

If its a slower sidewalk you want to either be
1. in front of the girl or set and start talking to them as they catch up with you and are beside you.
2. If you are walking towards the girls in opposite directions thats a very good open scenario too. Just don't get right in front of them and physically block them.
3. you are behind the girl, either walk quickly enough to get ahead of her and slow down and then talk to her as shes beside you or
4. worst case scenario walk up quickly and open her from behind or side. If you open her from behind I recommend just opening with Asking directions or something very very basic so you won't creep her out any more than possible. Once she realizes you aren't going to rob her or something then you can start an actual talk =P

Outside benches and stuff are great. Especially around lunch time walk around and see if any girl is sitting alone on a bench eating lunch or just hanging out. Ask her if anyone is sitting on the other end of the bench and then just sit down and start the conversation once sitting.

Smoke breaks and people hanging out, outside buildings are very good too. Crosswalks with street lights that are on campus are great too. Talk to the girls at the corner waiting for the walk signal.

Also girls will sometimes read books around campus. Some campuses have transit buses that run around campus that you can open girls on the bus or waiting on the bus easily as well.

If she has an ipod, and you want to open her or headphones in period. Just open her as normal once, and then as she notices you and takes out her head phones repeat the opener once more.

So many girls on campus will walk around with cell phones. Girls are glued to cell phones. It is most likely just a friend of hers between classes too. YOU CAN INTERRUPT. Just open her as if she wasn't on the phone. You would be surprised how often they will hang up quickly or ignore their friend on the phone.
2. If a girl is talking on a phone near you and hangs up, open her asking who she was talking to? Then whoever she says say I knew it!! I think people change their tone of voice depending on who they are talking to on the phone like mom, a boy, a girl, and so on. Tell her you knew she was talking to whoever based on her tone of voice. and then start a convo.
3. If she is texting an opener i do alot is walk over with your cell phone out and ask her "Hey can I be cool like you and text here too?!" (say this in an overly exaggerated semi excited way. And as you are saying it pretend like you are hitting the buttons on your phone texting someone goofily. Then ask her quickly "Who are you texting??!" if she looks hesitant to respond at all say "Boyfriend? a girl friend? mom??!?!" Then make a joke about her response. Boyfriend : oh honey i love you so much smooches XOXOXO!! girl friend: Mary quit being a whore! LOL! XOXO! doesnt matter what you say just make a joke about their response and pretend that you are texting the joke. She should be totally happy and totally interested in you at this point.

So what should I open with?? Depends on the situation, sometimes situational openers can be very effective. Opinion openers are a bit harder to pull off especially if the sets are busy studying or something they will wonder why you are bugging them with opinions while they are busy or going somewhere. Asking directions is good but very hard to transition into an actual conversation but very good for situations that would normally be creepy a.k.a from behind open, while its dark outside, while shes jogging, and so on. Asking if she is in a class with you is the same as asking directions. I often like asking where the girl is from. Hey are you from... (random place)? you look so much like this girl i went to elementary school with or an old friend or whatever. Sometimes girls will think you are BSing but you can pretty much always transition this into a talk anyway. You can also open with something facebook related. I love opening talking about facebook. You can think of multiple openers involving this but it is easily transitionable to a facebook friend close or even phone number. Every girl in college is basically on facebook now and they are addicted to it.

Ask them random questions to open: What book are you reading? Are you studying for physics?! Wait were you at that party on Friday?!? Do you live in XYZ dorm?! Are you in my XYZ class?! Just ask anything. You need to ask it in a way that is not demanding but in a tone that you EXPECT an answer. You need to ask it like Why wouldn't she respond?! Kino can be done but keep it light during the day. Also you want to ask them if they are heading to class or between classes or what their time restraint is so you know how much time you have to close them.

If you are in a cafeteria or restaurant on campus and you want to open some girls sitting next to you and your friends. Just start having a conversation loudly with your friends about some fun/ outrageous topic. If you can get them laughing from overhearing you, thats an easy open. If not you want them to know that you are just loud people and social. Then ask them a question from your table. Do not walk over to them just ask them from where you are sitting. The Chicken tastes kind of funny today! Hey did you guys get the chicken?!?! Does it taste alright?! thats a bad example but you get the idea just ask them something!

That's all I can think of off the top of my head but I am sure I have a lot of other tips. Anyone can get free coaching from me temporarily on my AIM account s/n: DateDemonInfo . or you can PM or email me if you have any specific questions at info[at]datedemon.com hope this helps you guys and good luck.