I´m The Nice Guy!

[ZoukBoy]

Hello fellas!

I´m 24 years old and a virgin yet. Yeah, It hurts me.

I found out the PU world in Feb 06 and since that I got better with women, but it´s hard to get off some my limiting beliefs.

The main one is my mother. I know I can appear like a stupid guy to say that. But, let me explain. I always grew up hearing my mother say: "This is bad. That is correct". Every mothers says that and I´m not able to cut off my life this stupids things.

Have someone ever win this obstacle? What would be the steps to win this?

see ya.

[ZoukBoy]

You know what I want to say...

to me it´s being hard to face the social pressure about myself ideal. I have some beliefs:

"I only will have a great life when I live alone, whan I have MY place."

[BleakBleak]

Hey,

As far as braking away from your mothers belief or "system"you have to understand the she is from a different time.

Maybe back in the day walking a girl home while holding her books for was romantic, but today it is shit.

You dont have to like it, just accept it. Once you accept it let it go.

you can move on.

Bleak

[lucverick1rd]

fuck that..hold the books for herthen bust her balls...attraction works the same regardless of what time she was from

[lucverick1rd]

Originally Posted by ZoukBoy

"I only will have a great life when I live alone, whan I have MY place."

That is very outcome dependent..that's to say..you can't have a great life if you
live w/ your mother..you've probly used this as a limiting belief...invite some friends over at your house from time to time..get her accustomed to ppl coming over to your place

[Slick]

So... what can you do to improve?

Instead of being a nice guy.

Be a "genuinely" nice guy

You will get laid paid and made....

[Mike Sinner]

There is nothing wrong with being nice. There is something wrong with being a "nice guy." when guys say, "I'm a nice guy," they usually mean, "I am not a leader, I avoid conflict. I do whatever I can to make the girl happy and feel good." What they really end up doing is come across needy and weak.

Remember that girls want strength an a leader who can protect and provide for her and her offspring. If a couple strangers come into her tent and want to rape her and kill her baby, who would she rather have protect her: The "nice guy," or the alpha bad boy asshole?

You don't have to be an asshole, in fact you shouldn't generally, and you can be nice. Just dont be like the "nice guy" mentioned above.

[Banzai]

Dont worry zouk boy, i hadnt had sex with a woman in two years before january, since january i fucked 3 chicks

Originally Posted by ZoukBoy

You know what I want to say...

to me it´s being hard to face the social pressure about myself ideal. I have some beliefs:

"I only will have a great life when I live alone, whan I have MY place."

If you're still living with your mother and she's doesnt help you to grow and evolve like you should the MOVE THE FUCK OUT. It will change you!!!

[eVan]

Just be glad you had an "available" mother who could love you.

eVan