Fuck Orange County!

[Sexual Chocolate]

Some of you guys know I travel A LOT. The more I think about it the more I realize that it's probably the fact that my results absolutely suck in Orange County, CA. Sinn has even mentioned that a club her called Sutra is one of the hardest venues to game in.

You may think it’s psychological. I thought so too for a while. Financial challenges fucked up my mindset, which made me get into the game. Years ago I was what you would consider a “natural”. There were times I was juggling 6 girls at a time and sleeping with all of them. I would have sex with one in the morning and a different one at night. Once I got into the game I realized what I was doing before, what I needed to change, and how much better I wanted to be over how I was back then.

Now I’m on a path to get the fuck out of “The O.C.” I’m considering either Los Angeles or Dallas, which is now dubbed the pick up mecca of the world. And I absolutely f’ing agree! Last weekend hanging out with my boys in Dallas was truly eye-opening to what madness I’m missing out on.

In the last 4 days I’ve met some really hot women who have been refreshing to talk to. Most women didn’t have an attitude and didn’t ignore me 30 seconds into our conversation. I kept saying to myself WTF? Why is this happening here? All I can say is I don’t know why but I want more of it.

I haven’t been in a situation where I didn’t have time to see all the girls I’ve met for a while. That was the case this weekend.

On Thursday I met an ex-stripper from New Orleans and an Ethiopian girl from Austin.

Friday was a dud because I wasn’t feeling a couple of the places the boys and I went to and Priest and I got kicked out of one spot for yanking a parking space from a girl who sucks the managers dick.

Saturday was pretty on. I merged my boys into a set I had previously opened. We ended up bouncing to a club across the street and then to a house party. After gaming my target out of the group, I found out that she had a boyfriend. That didn’t sway me, it just motivated me to spit better game. We eventually got to talking about g-spot orgasms, which really seemed to interest her.

When I got to the house party with Priest, my intention was to pick up were I left off, but one of her friends HBballerina started gaming me! The chick actually qualified me. “So what do you do? Wait… Before I can talk to you about that, what’s you favorite KRS One song?” I was thinking, “Ain’t that a bitch?” Had I known that Priest had already tried gamming this chick for 2 hours, I would have ejected and focused on my original target. She was a cool chick and an entrepreneur, which right up my alley because I like smart and driven women. We’ll see what happens when I go back in 2 weeks.

Sunday was pretty crazy. Got a glimpse of one of my wings “disgusting” game where he talks about VD and squeezing puss out of his penis into your eye. Believe it or not, this shit works! Just not for my drunk, smoking hot target. At least I made out with her in the corner before she left us to pursue the next new shiny thing.

I had 2 girls ask me for cocaine. One of them I know I could have gotten a blow job or f-close from. Wait... actually, now that I think of it, I could have done it with both of them. I think it would have allowed pull. Instead, I settled for making out with 2 really hot girls. I’m not mad though. Besides Miami, it’s been one of the most productive weekends in a while.

I went to a Bartles & James party with JohnnyWolf weeks ago and I must say that I was surprised at the openness of some of the women in a spot were there were celebrities (Leo DeCaprio for one) and a lot of eye candy.

So I want your guys’ feedback. For those who sarge or have sarged in L.A., what’s your take on the attitudes? Easy to pull? What works to pull in L.A.?

Much appreciated.

[HUGE AL]

Famous sales saying: It's the rep that makes the territory, not the territory that makes the rep.

This applies to PU. I know there are target rich places and places that totally suck (I have yet to find a place that's worse than SF). That said, OC isn't all that bad. I've done well at Sutra, Yard House, Spectrum, Downtown Disney, etc. BUT...I'd have to say LA is way cooler -- especially in the sense that there isn't a chain restaurant everywhere you look and the absence of 5 cop cars in the parking lot every time you leave a venue is refreshing.

[Sexual Chocolate]

Like I said, I know you guys might think it's psychological, but I this point after a year and a half in the game I think differently. I go out of town and my results are phenomenally better. Take Miami for instance.

I’ve come to a conclusion that my identity may not fit it these beach cities where all the hot girls hang out. If I was a white surfer, with all the stuff I know I’d be getting laid like a rock star!

[Havok]

X location is hard gaming.

Y location is easy gaming.


No matter what you do in life there will always be occurances of poor gaming enviroments. You can plan and think and get your ratios up so you are more often in more conducive enviroments, however, you will not always be in Ideal enviroments. There is a chunk of time in your life you will be gaming in poor enviroments and there is nothing you can do to completely eliminate them.

Limeting beliefs will tell us that these spaces are impossible, but persistent reframing pulls and manifests your attention to the sets in these enviroments. Play the game that is delt to you. Your best sets will be the ones against all odds.

Target rich enviroments offer a playing field for lots of practice, but poor enviroments offer a challenge of excelling in the face of adversity.

Havok.