PUA Training 101

[eros3108]

I have discovered in the last few weeks that each and every PUA has a specific charm about how they present routines. For this reason, some routines work excellent for some PUA's while others just can't seem to pull it off. I would be interested to know what other PUA routines work best for others. Here is one I often use:

After a time constraint and a good opener and maybe a neat story you heard recently on the news (e.g A woman who scared an elephant to save her baby...Something to grab her attention and make her say whoa!) Ask the girl if she wants to play a magic game. She always says yes if she has the time. Tell her you're going to ask her what are her 3 most favorite animals.

1. What's your most favorite animal in the whole world dead or alive and name 3 characteristics about it that you like? List them as she says them.

2. Second most favorite animal and characteristics.

3. Third most favorite animals and characteristics.

Most girls will have at least one favorite animal and will say it but others will think the game is stupid and you have to press on. As she answers the first 3characteristics, the girl will get frustrated and feel self-conscious and not want to play but you have to tell her to trust you and it will pay off in the end. By the third animal she will get really frustrated and will want you to hurry it up and so you must show playful excitement at this point.

This is how it will unfold.

The third animal you open up first and say it's characteristics (e.g Funny, colourful, playful) are the characteristics the girl most wants to aspire to be like and of course this animals characteristics were hard to define because the girl most often finds these characteristics hard to do herself.

The second animal and it's characteristics are how other people see her. (E.g. Quiet, loyal, "soft" = nice, comforting)

The first animal's characteristics is how she really is. (E.g. Intelligent, Strong, Beautiful).

The first and third animal are usually closely related but opposite in many ways and after you say the last animal's characteristics which was her first animal and it's similarities, the girl usually stops, thinks and reflects and her eyes widen. She'll say "hmm, wow!" or something of that nature and now feels comfortable with you, like you some how know her and begins to open up.

Anyone else have any other good ones?