I am 41 and I am attracted by a 21 years old girl

[Secretely]

Hello, a few weeks ago, I met a very cute girl. She has probably 21 or 22 years old and I am attracted to her but the problem is that I'm 41.

What do you think? Should I ask her out or it's just my limiting believes?

[Strength]

Well, age really does not matter, what matter is interest. My uncle was 42years old when he got married with a model in Bolivia. My uncle asked her out, she seems genuinely interested two weeks after they met, and later they got married. Age is not the issue, if you ask a lot of girls, most girls will tell you that they prefer older men,why? Because older men are more likely to have higher survival and replication value--- money or its equivalent.


So, just run your game on her, and if she seems genuinely interested in you, then just her out.

[Logan Ko]

You are right. The problem is you are 41.
To the point that you think that age 41 is a problem.

Try late 20s for practise then pawn your way to 21.

[leonidise]

inner game problem for sure,,, remember if you dont shoot you cant score. Lonely, with your text girl I would try a freeze out. when you just stop communicating it allows you to calibrate. if she responds eventually, you win... then hook, reel release. If she doesnt, you didn't give her enough attraction. Leave it for a while and text her with a funny text gambit I got from manwhores website, i paraphrase; I just wanted text and say goodbye, aliens are abducting all the crazy funny attractive people so I'm F'ed, dont worry your safe though! . I texted this to one of my targets after a text game gone sideways after a freeze out. She went crazy, pumped the buying temprature.... got me right back in.

[jayrock]

Run your game on her and remember that YOU are the prize. It's better to regret than to wonder "what if..." for the rest of your life.

[leonidise]

Kristen Stewart 22 cheated on the biggest sex symbol in hollywood with 41 year old director Rupert Sanders.... score, time to bury the demons and go get them.

[Duskwolf]

Speaking of Kristen Stewart....You guys should watch this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rqnu...e_gdata_player

[abc_thriller]

Any time age difference comes up -or I sense it might- I use this line:
"Hey, I realize there's an age difference here. ...but that's okay... I forgive you for being so young." Delivered with a little smirk, makes them smile every time. Definitely helps get the issue out of he way.

[Dealer]

Originally Posted by Secretely

Hello, a few weeks ago, I met a very cute girl. She has probably 21 or 22 years old and I am attracted to her but the problem is that I'm 41.

What do you think? Should I ask her out or it's just my limiting believes?

I've been away for a while but what is the age problem? I'm pasty white, fat, 36 year old and recently had a relationship with an 18 year old beautiful middle eastern Muslim girl. I had every social barrier there: age, religion, culture, race, body image, etc.... It doesn't matter. When they want a daddy, they want a daddy. (Not a sugar daddy, a daddy.)

[Curious16]

Has the woman shown any interest in you? Try your moves but don’t be surprised if she’s not into it. Young women have guy ADD and she might feel like you’re too old for her. If you are shrug it off and move on. Plenty of other women out there that appreciate more mature men.