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Old 06-21-2012, 08:51 AM
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Question Number closed in Daygame- Bounce with an ex-boyfriend of the girl

Today I've cold approached a ranked 6.5 single girl at Starbucks in Daytime.

"Hi, can I sit there?" I was a bit nervous, so after I sat down near her, I pretended to text for 1 minute.
Then, I used "The Set-up opener" to open her: "Hey, I wanna ask you something for opinion. How do you tell someone you're not interested without hurting their feelings?"
She responded.
And I said: "I asked about this because my friend Mandy is trying to set me up with her friend, which is a beautiful model, she's cute but she's just not my type. What should I say?"
After that, I transitted to another topics, started to DHV with Finger length routine, guess her occupation, eye accessing cues (NLP) etc.
She started to give me IOIs, her body started to lean in, and shared with me her stories.
She told me which secondary school she went to, and one of my model ex-girlfriend studied at that school. So I told her a story about that model ex-girlfriend to show pre-selection.

I number closed her without seeding the next date (Because I almost didn't prepare anything before appoach, I just used my previous canned materials and knowledge to open her, u can say it's a natural game), and her "friend" (who is her ex-boyfriend which I found out later) arrived. This guy is taller, stronger than me as he is a police. But he isn't a AMOG, he is a friendly guy, he didn't even think about if I was trying to get the girl even he knew that the girl got to know me at Starbucks just now. He even asked me if I wanted to join their dinner. I said: "Yes, sure." At that moment, I wasn't so sure if my decision is correct, or I should go at that moment because I already number closed the girl and I should leave before her temperature decline.
During the dinner, I started to find out the answer. I think I should go before he bounced me for dinner because I could feel that the temperature, curiousity, mystery of the girl started to decline... So I just being friendly and random talked to both the boy and the girl. I'm wondering if I have entered into the "Friendzone" between me and her...What do you think? Do you think having dinner with her ex-boyfriend together with the girl is a wrong decision?
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Old 06-21-2012, 09:20 AM
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Do you think having dinner with her ex-boyfriend together with the girl is a wrong decision?
Yes & No. You probably entered the friendzone, but what's wrong with that? Making two new friends is a good thing, and it increases your social circle. Some guys lose sight of the big picture—I know one major instructor who has lots of one night stands, but not a single friend. Happiness doesn't come from one night stands, it comes from friendships.

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Old 06-21-2012, 09:27 AM
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But what if i want to get the girl??
I have got her number, I'm still thinking should I text her tonight and bounce her into Phone game tomorrow and seed a date.. How do you suggest if I want to get this girl?
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Old 06-23-2012, 10:32 PM
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Well I met 2 girls studying in the library. I bumped into those girls everyday and spent 12 hours everyday with them studying for 2 weeks. 1 of them had a bf (a 7), the other just broke up with one (9). The whole time I thought I was stuck in friendzone and treated them as such. realized afterwards that the 9 actually liked me... A LOT... but not the 7. they are best friends. The 7 convinced her not to sleep with me. I REALLY wanted her! But now I have 2 gorgeous friends I use to DHV and I thank god for not having slept with her
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