Good Person Opener - My Most Original Opener yet...

[Decibel]

Ok, not to rain on your parade here, but I'm pretty sure it was not the words you used, but your delivery that made her attracted. You have loads of experience in that area, so that will def come in handy for you.
I opened at a mall yesterday with 'hey, what are you reading?' and got attraction off the bat. It's not what I said, but how it was said. It's the subcoms of a high value, sex-worthy man which usually make or break the opener.

[fair rose]

Originally Posted by Decibel

Ok, not to rain on your parade here, but I'm pretty sure it was not the words you used, but your delivery that made her attracted. You have loads of experience in that area, so that will def come in handy for you.
I opened at a mall yesterday with 'hey, what are you reading?' and got attraction off the bat. It's not what I said, but how it was said. It's the subcoms of a high value, sex-worthy man which usually make or break the opener.

I'll agree with you on that. But the words; with the delivery painted the perfect picture. I tend to not do "funny" anymore. I may be playful, but like Sinn said, within the first three mins. I do sexually escalate a lot more than the average guy. I've found with women, as long as you are on board with what you say, they will be on board as well.

[The Wild One]

Originally Posted by fair rose

I'll agree with you on that. But the words; with the delivery painted the perfect picture. I tend to not do "funny" anymore. I may be playful, but like Sinn said, within the first three mins. I do sexually escalate a lot more than the average guy. I've found with women, as long as you are on board with what you say, they will be on board as well.

Such a smoothie...I have no doubt you understand how to deliver the proper emotional reaction you're searching for..Just protecting any new guys that aren't on the same skill level from scaring girls doing this opener wrong.

[fair rose]

Originally Posted by The Wild One

Such a smoothie...I have no doubt you understand how to deliver the proper emotional reaction you're searching for..Just protecting any new guys that aren't on the same skill level from scaring girls doing this opener wrong.

I'm on your side bro... like I said, I've been working on this concept for four years now. And I still only deliver it well, ,when I feel it. I PRAY nobody goes out there and trys to wing it. But that brings me to the aspect of where I've seen this done before. The exact same frame I tried to convey is literally sucking her into a reality where its just me & her. To show you the emotional aptitude of what I'm trying to say, there's a scene in the Scorsese flick The Aviator (2004) where Leonardo diCaprio play Howard Hughes. This was basically the same frame: EYE Contact is most important aspect:

hope this helps.

watch from 8:50-10:34

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I6QAM...eature=related

[Bonafide]

woow good job, really.

my favourite part is when u say " NOT because you are beautiful" instead of sayin "not because of your looks"....

cuz u take a woman's insecurity away by judgin her looks as beautiful and not just sayin looks, cuz that would have left alotta space for the imagination.

good job, but one critic i got:
u know when u start with gold u have to remain gold..at least. she wont accept no silver from or gold, platnium, diamonds whatever u know ;-) keep up

[mma poker n pua]

you always come out of the blue and say exactly what needs 2 b said The Wild One, good job. Its imporntant to conceal your intentions right off the bat this doesnt. Its a mouthful and all she will be doing wen ur talking is thinking "ok, another nice guy how do i get rid of him and make this more comfortable for myself" this may work on desperate women but not 8s 9s n 10s.

actually now that i think about, how could a direct opener ever bag a 9 or 10?

[Marvel]

nice Fair, i like it and will use it.

[Freaky]

Pretty DAAAAMN out of the blue mate!
But i approve,since you emphasize your delivery...you get props from me for this one!

Cheers

[gamestudent]

Originally Posted by Cathal

"You're a really nice girl". That line never fails to get a girls wheels turning, they typically qualify to anything you say after that because they really don't know if you meant it as a good thing or as something you're not looking for. Sends them on a rollercoaster of thoughts when dropped in after a few minutes of good vibing.

Man, that is an excellent line. I would think the key is inflecting the "nice" ever so slightly (not the "really").

How about this one: "You seem to have a lot going on mentally." You could take it in two entirely opposite ways.

[gamestudent]

Originally Posted by Decibel

Ok, not to rain on your parade here, but I'm pretty sure it was not the words you used, but your delivery that made her attracted.

I'm a newbie at game, but this conforms to my limited experience. And I'll go farther: it's not even delivery, it's how you carry yourself before and during the delivery. I have been spending time at the pool at my tennis club. I can just look at the guys around the pool and see from their walk, posture, and facial expressions (conclusion: men don't smile) whether women will be attracted to them. The verbal content is crucial in the comfort and seduction phases, but I think if you carry yourself like a strong and valuable man, you can just say "hi" or nod or smile and get attraction right off the bat. I worked on making my walk more rolling and masculine, and got thick-soled shoes and padded them so I could get an extra couple inches in height to add to my 6', and I swear just those changes alone doubled the number of looks I get from women.

Maybe we all place too much emphasis on coming up with clever stories, lines, and endless forms of verbal bullshit. I wonder whether HBs care anything about all that. The attraction comes from having the attention of a man who acts powerful and valuable, even if he says inane things like "nice day."