Bartender Debacle

[EmergingfromAFC2012]

I'm a newbie that has left the game and is reentering. This is about a bar tha I go to because it's very local and convenient and because there are alot of chicks that are hired guns. I'll explain what it is that they do.

Day 1. A few weeks ago before I decided to reenter, I met a bartender. I gave off too many IOI's but the conversation was cool. She spoke to me about how she's in school, mentions a BF before the IOI's, very AFC of me. We did chat for over an hour or so. There was no one else at the bar, just her and I the whole time.

The type of bar that she works in is one of those bars where there are women that work as mere company and guys buy them drinks to keep them company. After watching season one of "The Pickup Artist" and seeing Mystery take the boys to a strip joint, I wanted to use the same tactic.

Still day 1. Before that, however, when I talked to her that day, I did buy her a drink. And that will be the last time I do that if I'm to be in this game. But being that she was a bartender she could not sit next to me like the hostess's do. I told her afterwards that I would be back for her. Sort of made it an issue that I would.

Day 2. I went back, but this time not for her, but to game chicks. Talked to a girl with a BF which explained to me why there were no IOI's. The bartender (mentioned at the opening of this message) on Day 1 was there, but I played a really good act as if I had a lot of stuff on my mind and ignored her until she drew my attention, we had a little verbal exchange, nothing deep.

Still Day 2. That was before I spoke to the hostess with the BF that I tried to game (I did not buy her a drink). The chick I tried to game showed maybe some IOIs, I even got her to say after I made a comment that I can tell that she's the type that goes all out for her parents, "How do you know this aobout me?" It's like she felt that I read her mind. But no # because of the BF.

Day 3. When I went back the next day, the bartender chick was there. She suddenly became very rude and indifferent, however. It took almost ten minutes to get her attention and to have her get me my beer. I was really sort of pissed in that I was trying to get her attention to ask her something and she ignored me constantly.

Back to Day 2. Now my ignoring her the previous day was because of all of the shit that was on my mind, sure it was contrived but there was sort of real stuff going on there. There was a total AFC next to me with some chick trying to kiss her and she resisted to the point where she leaned heavily on me. So I moved over to the hostess with the BF that I mentionrd earlier.

Back to Day 3. So I left the bartender a note telling her that her I didn't want to be a dick and tell on her boss, but her service really lacked courtesy and respect and made me feel uncomfortable and that I felt that she owed me an apology. I left a tip with the note since she did serve me the first beer at least, perhaps too big a tip $5. I may have DLV'd in that I said in the note that she almost ruined my night.

How should I have best handled this situation? And I'm wondering if I should go back occasionally to game other chicks there since it's so close to where I live. There are other bars in my area like that I think. Seriously, I would have had the hostess I spoke to on Day 2. had it not been for having a BF. She looked like she wanted to IOI.