PAU turned AFC wanting to move into PAU but has one Itis and shes not in my life now

[Churchill]

Hi Everyone

I know this may sound a little pathetic, but hey we all slip as people and hence the use of a psuedo name.

Heres the short version I moved from my city to a city in my country thats like Miami in 2012 I only went for a week from business and stayed for over a year just partying chilling and learning pick up arts. I got really good at it. I was dating a stripper at one stage and at times had 2 at a time wanting to see me at the same time. Life was good. Then due to some mess ups I lost a lot of money and business went South.

I lost almost everything and had to move in with my parents I was there for a year. I fell into heavy depression and literally left the house 4 times in a year.Then got back to my Home city by pushign myself to go back, which is like my countries New York. Before I left I was a celebrity in the business field and very connected at clubs through the fact that I produce music as well.

When I got back I got into my music again which boosted my self esteem again. Im waiting to add new vocals to a track so it can be released and recently I started to get business back on Track and in the last week my self confidence is almost 100% again.

However I am finding it so hard to approach women, I know exactly what to say, but I have a block that says people in this city aren't stupid enough to listen to openers and be fascinated by Cube tests and such yet in the last city It all worked so well.

Any advice to push me to start approaching i went to a club tonight only spoke to women friends introduced me to and it would have been so easy to walk up to a stranger, hell I do it in business all the time if need be and I do it to celebrities all the time lol.

Which leads me to point 2 I have one Itis over a Celebrity in my country I talk to her now and then just not arranging to meet as I want to be physically bigger Im a small guy Ill start gyming again this week, I want to be the best I can be when I see her shes a famous singer.

I did pick up a married women recently and got her to cheat on her husband which she was doing already, that was fun but shes gone back to him. I understand and I'm not upset about it, infact I'm happy for them.

I know its all muddled up, but any advice would be great please.

[The-Truth]

This seems more like a confidence issue more so then your actual game. Just start off on a newbie mission approach and open as many women or sets you can in places your comfortable in. For example if your in a business and there's cute women that work there just go up open them (not to actually take them home bad business to shit where you sleep, that's my personal take) just to build your confidence and go from there. Obviously you can try to number close on a few street approaches or wherever and once your talking to a few different women that'll help with the one-itis. Plus the KEY is if your trying to date or F-close a celebrity you need to be confident and "different" than other guys because you dont want to come off as some lame AFC because I'm sure she gets hit on ALL the time. You want to come off as confident, sexual, mysterious, but I'm sure you already know that! Best of luck to you !
Regards, The TRUTH