New Identity after bootcamp.
I've lurked this forum before, but I thought it's about time to sign up and start posting. I recently completed a bootcamp with Tenmagnet and Cajun. It was an awesome weekend and an eye-opening experience. On the last day of bootcamp we were talking about Identity and what it conveys about us. Tenmagnet asked me what does the way I dress say about me? Now here's a little background on myself; I'm 29, 6'2" ,260lbs, and usually wear t-shirt(sometimes cool trendy,pop,comic art) and jeans. Sometimes I will wear a collard shirt and dark jeans. He suggested I shaved my head to give me more of an edge. Before I had thick sandy blond hair on my sides but the top was thinning a lot and you could see right through it.
I shaved my head down to a "1" ,Thursday night. Now all the guys at work loved it ,except one who says it looks like I take Chemo. The women didn't know what to think about it,because they are used to seeing me a certain way. My current LTR is confused about it, she borderline hates/likes it. How should I dress now to take things up a notch. I'm originally wanted to go for a Daniel Craig from "Layer Cake" look, but with the shaved head now, maybe I should go for a Jason Statham type look. I'm not fit as those guys though, I'm about 30-35 lbs over weight but since I'm a big guy, my appearance looks more solid/medium than obese.
Can anyone suggest samples along with maybe some peacocking items for someone my size? I want to convey an Alpha-ness,Cool,Sexual,fun, with a bit of charming vibe, without going full blown rockstar or dressing like a guido.